just last night i had the chance to see an friend whom i havent chatted for quite sometime. it was so nice to see her again and greatful to learned that she is already a doctor. never did i thought she has that kind of ambitions as during her younger years, she exemplifies a gal who hated activites which require some serious readings. honestly, i find her so cool because she could exactly concentrate her schooling despite of enjoying her life then being a teenager. i must admit, there was this scyntilla of envy within me then well, may be because i had a very "uniquely restrictive" life when i was young... unlike that of her. anyway, as i was saying, it was like ... hmnnn..... ten years???? since the last time we had a good chat. i see her around but both of us would just wave our hands and give exchanges of hellos. last nght was quite different because we were able to seat for a while and actually shared some views and stories after the long missing.
with us talking now, its totally different. we both were young then and now no more. we are now grown ups and have taken life the more serious way. and yes,... as we're both single still, settling down was an interesting topic to share over a cup of coffee and a stick of cigar.
i thought she's already married,.. wasn't sure and so, i have to throw her that qustion in a manner that will not will not make me kinda stupid. finally, i got the answer, and indeed she is still single. asked her the reason why? there i begun to be a student and learned a simple yet a meaty lesson in life.
according to her, at our age, we sould not be looking for someone to love, instead we should be looking just for magic. at first i didnt actually get it but after some more exchanges of thought, i realized, there's a logic in it.
just a simple line but it made me think. im posting it here with the hope that it will be a factor for anybody who can read it in chosing a partner in life.
"FIND A SOMEONE WHOM WHEN D LOVE IS GONE, THE FRIENDSHIP KEEPS YOU BONDED!
with us talking now, its totally different. we both were young then and now no more. we are now grown ups and have taken life the more serious way. and yes,... as we're both single still, settling down was an interesting topic to share over a cup of coffee and a stick of cigar.
i thought she's already married,.. wasn't sure and so, i have to throw her that qustion in a manner that will not will not make me kinda stupid. finally, i got the answer, and indeed she is still single. asked her the reason why? there i begun to be a student and learned a simple yet a meaty lesson in life.
according to her, at our age, we sould not be looking for someone to love, instead we should be looking just for magic. at first i didnt actually get it but after some more exchanges of thought, i realized, there's a logic in it.
just a simple line but it made me think. im posting it here with the hope that it will be a factor for anybody who can read it in chosing a partner in life.
"FIND A SOMEONE WHOM WHEN D LOVE IS GONE, THE FRIENDSHIP KEEPS YOU BONDED!
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